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									Help a Brother out.. - Opinions and Polls				            </title>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-184340</link>
                        <pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2006 00:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[ye sdali lima i am goin to work in other fields i am proficient at.. If i sound like i am on the springboard and preparing to plunge my family into the unknown, i am not goin to subject them...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[ye sdali lima i am goin to work in other fields i am proficient at.. If i sound like i am on the springboard and preparing to plunge my family into the unknown, i am not goin to subject them to that.. i shall make the transitions smooth to them and myself.. i have alot of opportunities on the cape to keep the fam machine working smoothly.. and looking at going to work with cumpiano in western mass to pick his brain on the luthier side...the plans are slowly culminating,  i will not put any stress on the fam in this endevor. the opposite side of my artistic person is a engineer so i day dream all day but must play devils advocate to myself all night]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>muddy</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-184335</link>
                        <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2006 23:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Yeah, but the mansion&#039;s a bit more confortable - and the heat works!Key part of any artistic field - and certainly building guitars and working with wood in general is an artistic pursuit - ...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Yeah, but the mansion's a bit more confortable - and the heat works!<br><br>Key part of any artistic field - and certainly building guitars and working with wood in general is an artistic pursuit - is experience.  Working under an established luthier is very important, and the experience of working in your craft just cannot be replaced.  <br><br>Any chance you can re-locate in your current field and take courses in the evenings?  Or perhaps latch on to a local luthier as an apprentice and work in the evenings or during the weekend?<br><br>I myself have thought about starting an apprenticeship with a luthier to learn the tricks of the trade.  But for now I'm going to work on my playing.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>The Dali</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-184329</link>
                        <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2006 22:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[got ya hue and my family and fatherhood is the blessing in my life and i shall carry the torch with compassion and vigor... this is not for self fullfilment.. this is for a old artist to onc...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[got ya hue and my family and fatherhood is the blessing in my life and i shall carry the torch with compassion and vigor... this is not for self fullfilment.. this is for a old artist to once again weild my talents,  and make the choice for my arts to once again become my outlet.. i have changed my life when the wife and kids forged that raod.. and now i am stable again in my life and desire to take on a role more suited to my talents.. just before the family it was teaching sports and my visual arts.. painting sculpture etc...now with the music side comming out in my expressions.. i desire to build,  teach and generally embrace the auritory arts. Again i do not wish to be rich or famous or acheive a high level in this world, i desire to be a role model for my children in self belief fortitude and summation of ones desires.. keep my world small so we can enjoy life together and not have the reoccuring answer of "sorry daddy's got to work" i shall no longer strain my being for a ideal that is not carried on by me or my family, as i tell my wife.. if we live in a mansion or cardboard box we shall always feel each others love and support, and be happy with the world we create...]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>muddy</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-184003</link>
                        <pubDate>Sun, 18 Jun 2006 08:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Seems to me you need to find something that will take up the space and that you can take home with you. That is, no job or hobby or acquisition will ever fill your personal needs. I won&#039;t su...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Seems to me you need to find something that will take up the space and that you can take home with you. That is, no job or hobby or acquisition will ever fill your personal needs. I won't suggest anything in particular as I don't feel that forums are the place for that kind of philosophy speak. What I would suggest is that there is purpose in being a father and a husband. And, that taking pride in that role and doing THAT to the best of your abilities is certainly one of the more fulfilling goals in life. It has purpose. It concerns present and future. <br><br>Now, I know I said I wouldn't speak of anything specifically but I feel that fatherhood is a vast subject that can be taken down many paths and there are certainly aspects of it that require depth of thought far more than a person could delve into here. <br><br>At any rate what I'm trying to get at is that fulfilment cannot come from something you do, achieve or acquire. You must feel fulfilled first. Then, all that you do, achieve and acquire will have that much more meaning for you. <br><br>Just my thoughts.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>hueseph</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-183844</link>
                        <pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2006 08:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[I have a stressful job too but it pays so I don&#039;t worry about it.I work to live, not live to work.]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[I have a stressful job too but it pays so I don't worry about it.<br><br>I work to live, not live to work.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/paged/2/#post-183843</link>
                        <pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2006 07:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t work, nor do I have a family, but I just want to say goodluck!All of this talk of carreer changes freaks me out a little, who knows maybe after my upcoming years of politcal science,...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[I don't work, nor do I have a family, but I just want to say goodluck!<br><br>All of this talk of carreer changes freaks me out a little, who knows maybe after my upcoming years of politcal science, french, and law, I may actually end up doing my dream of becoming a record producer.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Off He Goes</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/#post-183055</link>
                        <pubDate>Mon, 12 Jun 2006 19:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Yup laz .. the good thing about the cape will be wife wife and all her family grew up their.. they are intrenched in the local scene,  so alot of contacts built in. as for my proficiency at ...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Yup laz .. the good thing about the cape will be wife wife and all her family grew up their.. they are intrenched in the local scene,  so alot of contacts built in.<br> as for my proficiency at the proposed jobs, I have been a coach most of my life in one respect or another.. i have been a artist all my life so can use my hands and mind very well.. also i am a engineer.  so i can have the most enjoyable struggles within my head from both side..lol...<br> so as for skill's i am set as for desire i am as passionate as they come.<br>only thing left is some minor prep, then off the cliffside i shall go..]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>muddy</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/#post-182714</link>
                        <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jun 2006 19:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Cape Cod has an interesting economy.  The farther out you go, the more it relies on the summer tourist trade.  Artists of all type struggle and succeed, but it&#039;s not easy, and the winters ar...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Cape Cod has an interesting economy.  The farther out you go, the more it relies on the summer tourist trade.  Artists of all type struggle and succeed, but it's not easy, and the winters are cold.  However, you'll be among peers, and there is lots of music of all types in the summer.<br><br>And you won't be too far from Boston and Providence, both of which have an active music community.<br><br>Good Luck wherever the road takes you.<br><br>Laz]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Dan Lasley</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/#post-182693</link>
                        <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jun 2006 17:08:34 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Very few people have a job doing something they love. And sometimes when you get such a job the love fades, because now it&#039;s a job. First I think you should ask yourself do you have the tale...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Very few people have a job doing something they love. And sometimes when you get such a job the love fades, because now it's a job. First I think you should ask yourself do you have the talents to learn the trade? Do you like working with wood? Do you like working with your hands?  Do you have good manual dexterity? Are you the type of person that pays attention to details (this is the big one)? Can you make precise measurements? These are just a few things I think you should ask yourself. There are several things that I would love to do for a living. But I'm not talented enough at any of them to feed myself let alone my family. There's nothing wrong with following your dreams, but you should assess if they are attainable. I'd love to play ball for a living, but I just don't have the talent for it.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Tim_Madsen</dc:creator>
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                        <title>RE: Help a Brother out..</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/help-a-brother-out/#post-182625</link>
                        <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jun 2006 04:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[well since we&#039;re telling our life career stories, i went to art school and had a lot of office type s--- jobs. then became a physical therapist in my forties. and it&#039;s really great compared ...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[well since we're telling our life career stories, i went to art school and had a lot of office type s--- jobs. then became a physical therapist in my forties. and it's really great compared to what i used to do. it's still stressful but in different ways and it's never boring. <br><br>for me the biggest obstacle to becoming a physical therapist was the schooling. i had to take two years of prerequisite classes to get into a physical therapy program and there was a (big) chance that i wouldn't get in any place because it's competitive. i was lucky to get into an inexpensive state school but it was pure torture. it was doubtful that i'd make it through because it was hard and a lot of people flunk out. anyway i got through and i've been a physical therapist since 2002.<br><br>what's the moral of this? i don't know but you asked what the biggest obstacle to changing your career path is. for me it was school. for you it may be money. have a lot in savings is my best advice.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>pearlthekat</dc:creator>
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