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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/paged/2/#post-374196</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 20:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[I play guitar, but I&#039;m going to buy a bass soon. I have a thread about it in the bass player discussion section. Your advice what to buy would be much appreciated!


I didn&#039;t pay attention t...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[I play guitar, but I'm going to buy a bass soon. I have a thread about it in the bass player discussion section. Your advice what to buy would be much appreciated!


I didn't pay attention to the username on that thread.  I dig the Thunderbird, but have only played them in the store.  They are heavy and cumbersome though and difficult to play sitting down.  I'm a Fender fan, myself.  I have a Fender P-bass, an SX (low-price fender clone) 5 string Jazz, SX fretless Jazz, a Squier VM 70's Jazz and an Ibanez acoustic.  My son has a clone of a Musicman Stingray that I really like too.  The key is, you have to be happy with both the look and sound, so get what you like.]]></content:encoded>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/paged/2/#post-374174</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 15:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[The easiest way to find people to play with: when the weather is nice,  play outside where people are.You&#039;ll find that people who like guitar - which includes most guitarists ;) will gravita...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[The easiest way to find people to play with: when the weather is nice,  play outside where people are.<br><br>You'll find that people who like guitar - which includes most guitarists ;) will gravitate to a guitarist.  My first week at college, I just played outside... I got to know tons of people.  Folks who play will may ask if they can try your guitar - let 'em!  Folks who sing will join in.  Play in the same spot for a couple of days and people will start to show up to jam with you.<br><br>You'll make new friends, and some will show you stuff... others you'll show stuff to.  It's all good.<br>Thats a prety good idea! And sounds like a real nice time to spend some time!!]]></content:encoded>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/paged/2/#post-374169</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 14:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Hiya, Kid...nope NYC. But this is home. AND YOU ARE RIGHT about Aussies being friendly. They love Britts and Yanks...especially Yanks...going back to Mac Arthur&#039;s WW2 ties with Oz. (The Crow...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Hiya, Kid...nope NYC. But this is home. AND YOU ARE RIGHT about Aussies being friendly. They love Britts and Yanks...especially Yanks...going back to Mac Arthur's WW2 ties with Oz. (The Crown was more concerned with using Aussies to fight outside of here...and McA was against that.) So, yeah...I agree...friendly, for sure. Actually, the term "mateship" is very important here...very important.<br><br>Hope your basement's not too cold over there in Sverge...but you've got the right idea about everything considering your recent posts. You ain't due for a ride in a hearse for a long time...so keep learnin'. But, still, it's true...get good and you'll get called. Get real good and you'll get made, paid, and even laid!  :roll: <br><br>Cat]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Cat</dc:creator>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/paged/2/#post-374168</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 10:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[...I was going to say, don&#039;t all Swedish people play death or black metal?   :lol: Do you play bass or guitar?  If you like the Black Keys/Jack White vibe, just go guitar and drums.  But, yo...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[...I was going to say, don't all Swedish people play death or black metal?   :lol: Do you play bass or guitar?  If you like the Black Keys/Jack White vibe, just go guitar and drums.  But, you said your guitarist is leaving, so maybe that means you play bass (if so, fellow low-ender high five). I've often thought about my son (he plays drums as well as guitar and bass) and I forming a Misfits tribute band with just drums and bass.  I would use fuzz and effects pedals to create a wall of sound with the bass.  <br><br>Just put out feelers every where you possibly can. A lot of times music stores have bulletin boards where you can post.  You're a student too, right?  Put some flyers up around school.

I play guitar, but I'm going to buy a bass soon. I have a thread about it in the bass player discussion section. Your advice what to buy would be much appreciated!<br><br>The guitarist isn't a huge loss, he just plays basic chords and powerchords. It would actually be alot better if he played bass. The guitar/drummer thing was my intial thought when mailing with the drummer but he really wanted to bring his friend with him.<br><br>Cat, you're an australian, right? I'm half australian so I've been there a lot and compared to Sweden it is a lot easier to get friends and talk to strangers there. People here are very introverted and if you talk to a stranger they might call the police because they think you're crazy...<br><br>Hm, should have added the option "I get paid to play with others".<br><br>I think I'll live in basement for two years and write the best songs people ever heard. Than, surely it would be easier to find people to play with. But I like to write songs while jamming.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Niklas</dc:creator>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
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                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 08:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[What I&#039;m really intrested in is how people here find people though. I went on a bit of a rant in the beginning, but I&#039;d like to hear your stories as well. I edited in a poll, but it&#039;s only i...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[What I'm really intrested in is how people here find people though. I went on a bit of a rant in the beginning, but I'd like to hear your stories as well. I edited in a poll, but it's only interesting if you write something about it too.

Right now I'm working a a comprehensive project with pro co-production that have a very long and successful list of platinums. All of the musicians (me, too) have spent years doing sessions and getting paid for it. This time around, we are splitting up the copyrights equally so that's the pay bit for them. The singer, however, I found in a musicians' classified website. She get's $120 a day for a three hour session. $20 is for her fuel...$100 is for "her". She's got a little kid and NEEDS the money. This is her first paying dependable job singing beside spotty "Holiday Inn" gigs.<br><br>Underneath it all...you need good material, good facilities, and good talent. If these factors are bleedin' obvious to everyone...you'll attract and keep good people. You will always have "What the f*(&amp;% am I paying you for?" up your sleeve. That always works.  :wink: <br><br>Cat]]></content:encoded>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/#post-374161</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 07:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[The easiest way to find people to play with: when the weather is nice,  play outside where people are.You&#039;ll find that people who like guitar - which includes most guitarists ;) will gravita...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[The easiest way to find people to play with: when the weather is nice,  play outside where people are.<br><br>You'll find that people who like guitar - which includes most guitarists ;) will gravitate to a guitarist.  My first week at college, I just played outside... I got to know tons of people.  Folks who play will may ask if they can try your guitar - let 'em!  Folks who sing will join in.  Play in the same spot for a couple of days and people will start to show up to jam with you.<br><br>You'll make new friends, and some will show you stuff... others you'll show stuff to.  It's all good.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>NoteBoat</dc:creator>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/#post-374159</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 06:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve heard it gets harder getting to know new friends when we get older, so no suprise it&#039;s no difference in finding people to play with. I&#039;m experiencing it now and I&#039;m only 24.

Whoa! Hold...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[I've heard it gets harder getting to know new friends when we get older, so no suprise it's no difference in finding people to play with. I'm experiencing it now and I'm only 24.

Whoa! Hold it right there...not true. I've made pretty good friends at all stages in life. I don't know what birdie told you this...it ain't true. Ask the other Old Dogs right here on GN...<br><br>Again, it seems that you are overly concerned with finding people to play with. Get to a point where you know that you are better than anyone you are likely to come across...and they'll come for you...with both hat &amp; money in hand. You are only 24??? Geez, I have shirts older than that...so just keep a sober and educated position in life...get on with a career...and keep playing your guitar. If you do...you'll make heaps of good friends and as you get better on your six string...a beaten path will lead to your door...<br><br>Hang in there, sonny!!!<br><br>Cat]]></content:encoded>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/#post-374152</link>
                        <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 01:13:54 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[Yea, I&#039;m pretty introverted, so I don&#039;t make new friends very often.  Being involved in music has changed that for sure.The #1 bit of advice I would give to people that want to play in a ban...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Yea, I'm pretty introverted, so I don't make new friends very often.  Being involved in music has changed that for sure.<br><br>The #1 bit of advice I would give to people that want to play in a band...DON'T NOODLE BETWEEN SONGS!  There is nothing more annoying than trying to ask a question or discuss something about the song you just played or are about to play and suddenly having TWEEDELY TWEEDELY POWER CHORD explode from a Marshall stack.   :evil: <br><br>Nashville is actually kind of difficult to put together a start up band.  There are countless musicians here, some very talented, some not.  You get a lot of "I'm very talented and already know 200 songs, let's get together and book a gig next week" types that don't want to practice for months before the first gig.  Then there are the ones that moved here to "make it" as a country music star.  They know 3 chords on their acoustic and can sing (sometimes).  They don't want to put together a band to have fun and make beer money on the weekend, they want a backing band that can play for free for the next 3 years while the singer gets discovered and, if he does, the record company will hire studio cats for the record and hire pros for the tour, so the backing band is back to craigslist to find the next up and comer.  <br><br>I was going to say, don't all Swedish people play death or black metal?   :lol: Do you play bass or guitar?  If you like the Black Keys/Jack White vibe, just go guitar and drums.  But, you said your guitarist is leaving, so maybe that means you play bass (if so, fellow low-ender high five). I've often thought about my son (he plays drums as well as guitar and bass) and I forming a Misfits tribute band with just drums and bass.  I would use fuzz and effects pedals to create a wall of sound with the bass.  <br><br>Just put out feelers every where you possibly can. A lot of times music stores have bulletin boards where you can post.  You're a student too, right?  Put some flyers up around school.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>jwmartin</dc:creator>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
                        <link>https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/how-to-find-people-to-play-with/#post-374145</link>
                        <pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 22:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[jwmartin, it sounds like you have som great options to play with. Then you&#039;re from Nashville and if you were having trouble finding people playing music over there something wouldn&#039;t be righ...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[jwmartin, it sounds like you have som great options to play with. Then you're from Nashville and if you were having trouble finding people playing music over there something wouldn't be right. Oh, and I've changed the poll to multiple-answer and you can re-vote. <br><br>I think it depends hugely where you live if there other musicians around. Stockholm isn't very good for rock music at all. Sure, we have the ABBA-studio and we have the studio where all the crappy pop songs of the 90's where written (if you want to blame anyone for Backstreet Boys and Britney Spears it's Andreas Carlsson). And a great deal of hip-hop culture. However rockmusic is dead here. I know for a fact that it's much better in Gothenberg. They guys I'm playing with now are from LuleÃ¥ way up in the north and they also have a much better music scene. <br><br>And because it's dark, cold and snowy here 80% of all musicians play metal. This is a problem. I used to play it too, but then I grew up and got really bored of it. <br><br>I should move to London, Berlin or Melbourne. I'm actually serioulsy thinking about it. Just as soon as I finish my education. The food is not very good in England though, and my german isn't what it used to be...<br><br>Haha, sorry cnev but that about Still got the blues made me laugh. Just becasue I know that kind of thing too well. What about this; the singer in my old band used to play the bass line of "Daddy Cool" between every single song on his guitar. I just wanted to strangle him.]]></content:encoded>
						                            <category domain="https://guitarnoise.forum/opinions-and-polls/">Opinions and Polls</category>                        <dc:creator>Niklas</dc:creator>
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                        <title>Re: How to find people to play with</title>
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                        <pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 22:34:31 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[JW you are right about &quot;the folks you&#039;d rather now know.&quot; I&#039;m a  bit like Nik in that normally I&#039;m picky about who I hang around with, but music does open the door a bit to meeting new peopl...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[JW you are right about "the folks you'd rather now know." I'm a  bit like Nik in that normally I'm picky about who I hang around with, but music does open the door a bit to meeting new people.<br><br>I kind of paraphrased what has happened over the last year or so but I have played with a bunch of different people and most were pretty good players but I didn't connect with all of them.<br><br>Just for an FYI our old bass player that I mentioned earlier found another guitar player an asked me and the drummer to come by and play with the guy. This guy can absolutely shred on a guitar and play anything but after two times trying to get something going with him I just gave up. I can't even put my finger on it but something wasn't there. For one thing he was obsessed with Gary Moore which is fine but everytime we had a break he'd start playing Still got the blues with his amp set at like 15. It was really loud and annoying even if he played it well.<br><br>Played with another guy who has great chops too but you pretty have to play a blues song and you better know his "arrangement" since he rarely plays anything the way it was recorded. Again it's fine but tought o get on the same page with and personally I hate the blues and don't enjoy playing it or listening to it.  But the few times he's tried to jump in on a rock song forget it he had nothing.<br><br>In my world I have limited skills and a very particular taste in music which again I've had to compromise in order to get everyone to agree on songs for the band but it's all good right now it's my number 1 hobby.]]></content:encoded>
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